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Well Done Is Well Said
Andrew Carnegie said, “As I grow older I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do. It really is like Henry J. Kaiser pointed out, “If your work speaks for itself, don't interrupt.” And if it doesn’t, it doesn’t matter what you say. When all is said and done, “People may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do.” (Lewis Cass)
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Facing Angry Bears
"Don't be afraid to take a big step
when one is indicated. You can't cross a chasm in two small steps." --
David Lloyd George
It sure sounds like good advice. One should not be too timid or
play it too safe. Sometimes you need to take a chance but notice that it’s
recommended only when it’s “indicated.” Therein lies the rub. How do you tell
when it’s indicated? Some days you get the bear and some days the bear gets
you; but you may want to double check to be sure the attack is imminent before
you pursue hand to paw combat with the bear. If you detect angry bear breath,
it’s likely indicated.
That clarifies the “indicated” part of the advice but what about
the “Don't be afraid” part? It’s not at all obvious why an absence of fear is
either important or required. Suggesting that one should or can confront life’s
angry bears without a good measure of fear and trepidation is absurd. Were
David Lloyd George here today to discuss the point, a line from Rudyard Kipling
would be apropos, “You're a better man than I am, Gunga Din!”
That leaves only the issue of not being able to cross a chasm in
two small steps. It sounds like one is being encouraged to leap and pray.
That’s like jumping off a cliff and hoping you can fly. Maybe this is good
advice but only if that angry bear is actually snapping at your heel. If not,
you might take time to build a bridge, consider climbing down the cliff and
back up the other side, or perhaps finding a trail around the chasm. Whether
the cost of staying where you are is worth the risk of falling in is also
likely worth a moment of careful contemplation. As Alexander Pope admonished,
“Fools rush in where angels fear to tread.”
The conclusion is that the advice
embedded in the quote is pithy but suspect. It implies that reluctance to take
“a big step” reflects cowardice and maybe even a serious lack of character.
Neither is true. George’s advice is certainly food for serious thought but
should only be consumed with a large grain of salt.
Global Warming: A Ghastly Proposal By: James Nash Global warming is occurring at even a more accelerated pace than what was originally predicted. It is starting to look like a nightmare for humanity and becoming more a ghastly proposal, not an "inconvenient truth."
In Category - Environment
Find New Or Old Friends Online; Its Easy, Quick & Fun! By: Kristi Ambrose One thing I have had a lot of luck with is these websites called friend finders. These friends finders range from adult/mature, pen pals, online, offline, activity partners and much more.
In Category - Directories
Who Is Desperate to Lose Weight Quickly? By: Garen Arnold Losing weight in today society can troublesome at times. Everyone who is over weight is desperate to lose weight quickly.
In Category - Weight Loss
Getting Back Together With Your Ex - Do Not Lose Control By: Allaner Limer While breaking up can be very devastating to anyone, no matter who initiated the break up, it doesn't always have to be the end of a story.
In Category - Relationships
How to Analyze Commercial Properties By: Lorenzo Hills Financing commercial properties or income-producing real estate is not an exact science. It requires subjective analysis, experience, and an ability to be innovative and creative.
In Category - Finance
Acting Auditions Are The First Step To Acing Success By: Bart Icles Believe it or not, if you are actively pursuing an acting career, your career starts with an audition. Not with acting school, not with finding a talent management agent or agency, and definitely not with landing your first gig as an actor.
In Category - Career
Ten Ways To Improve Your Acting Skills By: Bart Icles Are you looking for great ways to improve your current acting skills? Believe it or not, you could probably fill rooms of your home or apartment with books that can teach you how to be a better actor and improve upon the acting skills that you already posses.
In Category - Career
Can Online Marketing Be Your Secret To Success By: HAZEL LEONG How would you define success? According to Webster's dictionary success is an attainment that is successful, or a state of prosperity and fame. If this is how success is defined, then isn't it what all of us have been trying to achieve all along. Find out if you can achieve the success that you've been dreaming of with online marketing.
In Category - Internet Marketing
Things To Look For In Wine Bar By: Pius Victor Ephenus Wine drinking is one of the best ways to enjoy oneself or to have a chat with friends. If you want to enjoy wine outside, there are outside wine bars that will surely suit you. However, as a customer you should know that there are some things to consider before going into a wine bar.
In Category - Wine and Spirits
Choosing the Right Corner Computer Desk By: Martin Brinkmann An informative article about finding the perfect computer desk.
In Category - Home
Life Success Strategies - Success and the Law of Attraction - You Gotta Live Large! By: Ken Donaldson How big can your life be? What I'm asking is: How big is the space you live your life in? What restricts you from growing as big as possible? Is there any chance you've already outgrown your old life? Just how big is your life, and how big can it be?
In Category - Inspirational/Motivational
Money Making Systems Are The New Craze! By: Kristi Ambrose But, don't be getting all disappointed on me yet, there are ways to make money online that are legit, in fact I can name 50 ways right now off the top of my head.
In Category - Business Opportunities
Vista Start Menu Vs XP Start Menu By: Martin Brinkmann An article that compares the start menus of the last two Microsoft operating systems.
In Category - Operating Systems
Don't Empty Your Cup, Just Check Your Ego At the Door By: Calasanz Martinez A different perspective on the ancient martial arts wisdom "empty your cup".
In Category - Martial Arts
How To Choose A Home Gym By: Jeremy Ranson Finding a suitable fitness equipment is a tricky business. We often do not know what we need to improve our fitness level and we also don't know which manufacturer to choose. This article will help you get a step closer to your decision.
In Category - Equipment
How To Tell If A Guy really Loves You : 6 Simple Things To Know! By: Sarah Nichols If you have gone mad into thinking if the guy whom you have fallen for really loves you and wants you for life then here are some small yet extremely significant simple things that would really let you know how genuine are your partner's feeling are for you.
In Category - Dating
Do You Want To Lose 15 Pounds Fast By: Garen Arnold Losing weight is a lifestyle change. If you are serious about weight loss you can lose 15 pounds fast
In Category - Health
How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting With You - 5 Signs That You Need to Know! By: Sarah Nichols In all such cases, it becomes highly important for the women to beware of all such flirtatious attitudes and not get trapped in their sweet yet dangerous words.
In Category - Dating
There Is Always Money To Be Made On The Internet By: Kristi Ambrose First and foremost an important part of joining any business, service, company or system, is to look up reviews on the site. This can easily be done by going to your favorite search engine and looking for the site at hand and ending that link with the word "reviews."
In Category - Business Opportunities
Use Coupons To Teach Children And Find 7 Key Benefits By: Zacharias Allred Coupons are a good way to teach children many life skills. As you know coupons are very plentiful and easily assessable. Merchants use coupons as a way to get consumers to try new products and to bolster customer loyalty. There are many benefits to using coupons while teaching your children. Here are 7 benefits.
In Category - Personal Finance
Relationship Success: Getting the Love by Finding the Safe Harbors from Life's Storms By: Ken Donaldson Ego...Pride...Image. Time and time again I see how these three dynamics interfere with people's well-being and the development of healthy support systems.
In Category - Advice
The Do's And Don'ts Of Water Damage By: Charmaine Pierce As we all know, one of the worst types of damage that we may encounter in our day to day living is water damage. When water damage wreaks havoc in our place, our daily routine is interrupted. In many instances our kids can't go to school, we can't go to work, or even do the mundane tasks that need to be done.
In Category - Home
How To Tell If A Guy Likes You By His Body Language By: Sarah Nichols Want to know whether a guy is flirting with you or serious about you; get tuned to his body language. Yes his body language which plays an important role in telling you what a person thinks about you his eyes, the way he talk, gives you signals are reliable means of knowing what a person thinks about you from inside.
In Category - Dating
Relationship Strategies 101: Accountability Circles, Peer-Leaders and Your Personal Posse By: Ken Donaldson If you already know about support groups and how to start building your support network, then here we'll talk into the groups you will want to develop for yourself...
In Category - Advice
Top Ten Fad Diets Are Yo Yo Diets By: Garen Arnold The cravings that come with yo-yo dieting can be very habit forming.
In Category - Weight Loss
Craps Tips - Beating The Game of Craps By: Jonathon Hardcastle Craps is the roller coaster of casino games. When a shooter is riding a hot streak it can be the fastest and most exciting place to be in the house. This is understandable since craps is also one of the most favorable games to the player, if played correctly.
In Category - Gambling
Blackjack Quiz By: Gayle Mitchell Test your knowledge of Blackjack with these 10 questions and answers
Hit, stand, surrender, card counting strategies and some jargon are part of this Quiz
In Category - Recreation
How To Tell If You Like A Guy : 3 Sure Shot Ways To Tell Him! By: Sarah Nichols The situation can become worse in case when the girl fails to express her emotions and that too when the guy is not even giving any hints as well. Following are some of the ways that can actually help you to tell if you like a guy
In Category - Dating
Undiagnosed Spinal Injuries – The Long Term Effects By: N Glover Back injury is one of the biggest causes of lost working days in the UK The spine and soft tissues of the back are incredibly sensitive and injury can arise from a wide variety of normal activities such as sports or lifting loads, from slips and trips at home or in the workplace and from more serious incidents such as traffic accidents
In Category - Legal
Pros And Cons Of Smart Cap Stocks By: Nir Dotan Have you ever wondered what the experts mean when they talk about investing in smart cap stocks? Simply put, smart cap stocks means smart investing in small cap and micro cap stocks. For the sake of convenience, it is collectively called as smart cap stocks.
In Category - Investing